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Monday, July 26, 2010

People, Adjust Your Mindset!!!

It is proven that your mindset effects the direction of your life, how you treat people, and how people treat you.  So when someone points out that you need to watch it, don't get mad, step back and wonder why they feel they need to tell you that.  Seriously.  I know several people who do nothing but complain.  NOTHING BUT COMPLAIN.  Everytime I see them, the first thing out of their mouth is a complaint.  Can a sister get a "Good Afternoon?"

Complainers, Ney-Sayers, and Pessimists:

You are a negative person in the lives of others.  You have "friends" who keep you at an arms length, because quite frankly, your attitude is extremely draining.  Why should someone have to overextend their energy to be your friend?  Why is it that you don't seem to keep too many friends around for too long?  Have you ever wondered why?  Sadly, you have lost friends, like myself, because any good news or hope that they choose to share with you, you feel the need to be negative at every turn.  Constructive critisim is needed among friends, but if nothing you say is constructive, only destructive, it is to the friendship as well.

I'm not being mean when I ask you, "Can you say something positive?"  You're proving my point when all you can say is, "It didn't rain today."

Mathematically speaking, ATTITUDE = 100% (1+20+20+9+20+21+4+5).  I don't think that was an accident.  I think we all want to grown and develop, and I understand you wanting to be realistic about life.  But don't allow that mindset to keep you from enjoying the moments and people in your life that help give you that hope and faith you need to have a positive outlook.

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